When you meet someone for the first time


I meet someone for the first time after talking to her online.  The reason we started talking really has nothing to do with anything but she was looking for a ride.  We spoke via Facebook messenger, for about an hour.  I went to her profile to check it out.  She seems nice enough.

She goes to my profile, sends me a friend request, goes to my business page, looks over it and tells me we have OH SO MUCH IN COMON.  Looks through my photos, my posts, reads my intro., etc …

Then she starts telling me what I should do with my page, what I should post, how I should post, etc ….  Mind you we are in the same business.  We have had different training.  I do my thing and she does hers.  We do this differently.

So after all this messaging back and forth I decided I would be nice and give her a ride to the conference we were attending.  She is not far from me so I thought we could meet in a public area.   Hey!  I don’t know her from Joe Blow.  So we meet at a gas station.  She leaves her car and we head to the conference.

We weren’t in the car but 5 minutes an she says to me “You’re not a small as I thought you were.  You’re not as small as your picture”  :: mind blown ::  I’m sorry but WTF??  REALLY?  Did those words just come out of your mouth?!  She is VERY forward and blunt.

I ignored it but still.  Was I hurt?  Hell yeah.  Was I taken back?  Fuck yeah.  Like really?  Not like I don’t already know I have some weight to lose and that I have to get back to working out but REALLY lady?  I just met you …. LITERALLY!!!  Not even 10 minutes ago.

I could have said something but why bother?  I would only just irritate myself more and if I kept going I might have pushed her out the door.  I do let things fester.  I do hold grudges.  I did  let it go though.  I figured we weren’t going to be best of friends nor would I see her on daily basis so I thought I might as well just drop it.  So I just let her talk and talk she did.  WHOA!!  Talk and talk and talk and talk …. HOLY Guacamole.

And all she really talked about were all these people.  People I have never heard of before and she was SHOCKED to say the least. I mean we do not run in the same circles.  I asked her questions about these people and she couldn’t answer them.  The questions would have helped me figure out who these people were.  I think it had to do with who were “run” with.  And how she emailed specific people and got responses.  How much she weighs and wants to weigh more.  No she does not have an ED.

I may be blowing this WAY our of proportion but I am not the type of person who is comfortable with this type of person.  I do not take criticism well.  I am trying to change that.  I am trying not to jump down peoples throat for it or get short with them.  Trying to change.  How would you have handled it?  Ignored it?  Said something?


I know I am rambling and just talking in circles but I wanted to vent and this really is the only place to do it.  So I apologize if I have offended anyone.  😦

Now I am off to do some work.


Happy New Year

It’s Here!!
It’s Here!!

New Year.

And I am going to bed early, LOL

I always stay up. The last few years we have been in Biloxi, M staying at the Beau Rivage and ringing in the new year there. This year I am heading to bed in about 30 minutes. I want to get up early and get my New Year on!! I need to get my workout in, work on getting my business up and running. Like REALLY work office hours. I haven’t done this since …….. 1999? This may be a bit hard to start.

I feel if I can just start and get a schedule down I will be good. I need to get this business going. I tried last year and that didn’t work. THIS IS MY YEAR. I am training. Taking online “classes”. I mentioned before I am working on my personal development.

I can’t wait to have my team call. I can get lots of ideas on how to start, WHERE to start and what to do. Other than be consistent.

Short post, I am yawning while typing. I feel like it is time for bed now.

Please stay safe out there tonight.



Ok I had a great blog idea …… about 4 hours ago.

I knew I should have written it down or made a voice memo because now I am clueless.  No idea what I wanted to talk about.  I HATE it when I do this.  And I do it a lot.

I know I was at my dad’s.  I THINK we were out to lunch.


This may be a really short …. never mind.  Found something to post abut 😀

I signed up for a Test Group for a workout.  The workout is 80 days.  Like …. Y I K E S!!  I have done a 2 month program but not a 3.  This is going to be hard.  I have been doing really well with my nutrition though so that part shouldn’t be too difficult.

The eating is all timed out.  A daily schedule of when and what to eat.  This is great for me.  I alway wind up eating the same thing and my food schedule is never on point.  The only thing I MAY have issues with is eating before a workout.  I normally do not.  I get up, have my coffee, drink my water, have my pre workout then go workout.  I hope I don’t get sick.

The workout are 6 days a week.  We get a day of rest during this one.  YAY!  These are going to be hard.  I haven’t worked out …. in like …… Oh My forever.  I can’t even imagine how i am going to feel.

This all starts on January 15th but I will start another program to prep for this.  I am going to be SO SORE!!!!

Personal Development

I have never really “believed” in personal development.  Actually I really didn’t know what it was.  How it worked.  What was considered to be personal development.  I had always thought that they were all motivational speakers.  And honestly they were talking out their asses.  

Since I have learned about it more recently and have decided to be more open minded I thought I shall give this a try. I was told they are not all motivational speakers.  They are not all gospel speakers.  They are not all the same.  I didn’t know there was personal development for business.  I had NO CLUE really.

I am going to give this a try.  I have started with some Darren Hardy.  He is the author of The Compound Effect.  I have tried to read that book but to no avail.  I just can’t get through it.  I understand the concept I just can’t read the book, or listen to the book.  So I have opted to try his Darren Daily videos.  Daily Mentoring with Darren Hardy/  They are actually really good.  Some really good content.  They are little 5 minute videos.  

I have started to listen on a daily basis.  The emails arrive at like 3am so when I get up they are in my inbox waiting for me.  I wake up, get my coffee and check my mail for my video.  Great way to start the day don’t you think.  

Well off to watch another video.  Enjoy your day 


This is OUR year

Good afternoon
Good afternoon
Good afternoon

Hope everyone had a WONDERFUL Christmas and spent it with family and friends.

Now we we look forward to New Year.

New Year
New Beginnings
New Plans
New Goals
New Friends
New Accomplishments
New Adventures

I could go on and on. But you get the jist.

It is a time to start fresh and change what you wanted to change last year but never did. Add what you wanted to add. Start new routines.

I plan on doing ALL this. I will take it slow and log everything I do. Everything I accomplish. Everything I eat. All my workouts. All my business ventures, ideas.


This is OUR year. We can all do it. Join me and we can do this together.